We have found that people are sometimes unsure if they need the help of a Christian
counselor. You may find the following self-
Do you find yourself:
° Constantly seeking to please others to get their approval?
° Fearing criticism?
° Caring for others, but finding it difficult to care for yourself?
° Isolating yourself from others or from God?
° Unable to face conflict?
° Feeling rejected by authority figures?
° Confusing pity for love or sex for love?
° Having difficulty making decisions?
° Being driven to perform and not make mistakes?
° Needing to be in control?
° Being shut down in your emotions?
° Minimizing, altering, or even denying the truth about your true feelings?
° Feeling depressed, worthless, flawed, or helpless to change?
° Judging yourself and others without mercy?
° Being unable to trust?
° Holding unforgiveness towards God, others or yourself?
° Being afraid that others will hurt, reject, or abandon you?
° Struggling with your relationship and feelings toward God?
° Struggling with broken relationships?
° Experiencing marital and/or family problems?
° Lacking intimacy with your spouse, God or others?
° Numbing your pain with work, alcohol, food, drugs, sex, etc.?
° Feeling out of control in any area of your life?
° Experiencing confusion regarding your sexual identity?
° Struggling with sin issues?