

"You're Just Like Your Father"
Whether we like it or not, the wounds from our parents direct future patterns and ways we relate to others, especially in our closest...


"Did It Matter to God?"
When we work with counselees, we ask them to reflect on different needs that we believe God says are important to our childhood...


The Story Behind "The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself"
Our book, The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself, is about the heart—your heart and ours. From the very beginning of our counseling...


How Nice is Your Self-Talk?
We never like it when we are criticized, ignored, diss-ed, or rejected by others. We think it's wrong, offensive, unfair, or just plain...


"What in the World Drives My Actions?"
Whenever we counsel, we are always looking for the “drivers” that are causing problems in our behavior and in our relationships. As we...


"Childhood Wounds Matter" and "Guilt vs Shame"
Here are two new 1-4 minute video clips taken from a seminar we conducted in Sanibel, Florida on The Missing Commandment: Love Yourself....